Kentucky Coaches and Alcohol: A Sour Mixture
Back in the mid-'80's, when I could be found running around Lexington terrorizing the locals, and just generally being a nuisance, many were the nights when, as I pulled in front of my house, I asked myself, "How did I get here?"
For after work, which ended around 8-9:00 pm, I headed straight for Shooter's; my favorite place to imbibe. So familiar was I with the establishment, that my trusty barkeep had my rum and coke sitting at my spot before I could walk the thirty-feet from the front door to the barstool. And on that barstool I stayed, until closing, when I reluctantly relocated to my home.
I was 19-20 years old, dumb, seemingly indestructible, and just plain lucky I didn't kill myself, or some poor family driving innocently down the road.
What I wasn't was an assistant coach at the University of Kentucky.
With the April DUI arrest of UK assistant basketball coach Rod Strickland, and Sunday's public intoxication arrest of graduate assistant football coach (and former UK standout center) Matt McCutchan, the University of Kentucky has endured two alcohol related arrests, of two assistant coaches, in a three-month period. That's two too many, and has only added to the recent negative press UK has received over the last month or so. But bad press, resulting in a negative public perception, is the least of the problems created when a coach opts to display the maturity of an 18-year old.
On so many levels, a more mature posture has to be taken by those charged with leading the young men and women of UK's athletic programs. Taking into consideration that alcohol related deaths in this country hover around the 15,000 deaths per year mark -- 15,000 per year! That's roughly 41 people killed per day -- alone, that should be motivation enough to dissuade a person in a postion of responsibilty to think long and hard about drinking and then getting behind the wheel of a 3,000 pound killing machine. To hammer the sobering reality home, the "deathclock," which tallies the number of alcohol related deaths in the US, has, as of 6:12 EST Tuesday, registered 5,115 alcohol-related deaths this year. But beyond the obvious reasons a leader should be hyper-sensitive to his/her responsibilities, one would think a coach, who by definition should be more responsible and aware of the increased impact his/her actions has on those he/she leads, would take particular care in decision-making. Fully measuring ones actions is simply non-negotiable when one dons the cap of coach.
Young athletes, perhaps more-so than any other group of youths, look up to and admire those who have accomplished what they are still striving to achieve. In other words, whether the coaches like it or not, they are role models, put upon a pedestal by impressionable young men and women. Perhaps, after ones parents (and many times before), the coaches of young athletes are primarily responsible for shaping a player's goals for their athletic future, but most importantly, the coaches are oftentimes the model for how to live ones life away from the field of competition. How many times have we heard players over the years speak of how Rich Brooks and Tubby Smith displayed the character, both on and off the field, which is conducive to living a productive life?
To be clear, I'm not calling for UK to recruit coaches on the playgrounds of monasteries and convents around the nation. Rather, I would like to see UK's administrators, UK President Lee Todd and Athletic Director Mitch Barnhart, take an active role in laying down the law to the coaches who call Kentucky home (to be fair, Strickland, who has had previous alcohol related issues, has already been rightfully stripped of his coaching duties, and reassigned within the athletic department).
But what does 'laying down the law' consist of .... what action should the university take to ensure this embarrassment doesn't happen again? Should a zero-tolerance policy for any type of alcohol-related offenses among the various coaching staffs be instituted? Possibly, but the indisputable fact is that no such policy should be necessary. These are grown men and women, who should know better than to drink and then drive a vehicle, or drink and become drunk in a public place. These aren't college players, who by virtue of their youth are generally reckless by nature, rather, these are coaches: Adults who should be aware that there are consequences to their actions. And should be fully aware that the players are carefully watching.
Now, I'm not begrudging anyone of legal age, UK coach or not, the right to drink alcohol. My only request is for those who wish to indulge in spirits to exercise caution pertaining to when and where they drink, with some forethought given on how they will be getting home, as well as the environment in which they choose to partake. It's certainly one thing to enjoy an adult beverage within the confines of ones own home, but quite another to become intoxicated in a public place. Am I holding these men and women to a higher standard than the average adult? Yes, most definitely a higher standard of conduct applies to the coaches of our young people. And if one feels as if that standard is a bit too lofty, then by all means, they should feel free to find gainful employment elsewhere ...
... and if one must drink in public, for goodness sake, call a cab, or stay in your room ... as the case may be.
Luckily, the idiotic indiscretions of my youth did not result in anyone paying the ultimate price, which is something I today look back on with a huge sigh of relief. A sigh of relief for me, my family, and any innocent unlucky enough to have come across my weaving path. So coaches, please keep in mind your high responsibility, for the next time you drink and then operate a motor vehicle, or venture out in public, you might not be as fortunate as I was in my youth.
Thanks for reading, and Go 'Cats!
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Great & timely post.
I wasn’t a big bar guy – we drank at my apartment on Aylesford (the W.T. Young Library side of Rose), or my friends’ house (on the other side of Aylesford) – but when I did go to a bar, it was Lynagh’s on Euclid.
I don't think
you can count this as two instances of the most extreme and irresponsible abuse of alcohol. In Strickland’s case he was on the road impaired and thus a danger to himself and the general public. Since he is a repeat offender, he must be dealt with in order to protect himself and everyone else.
The graduate assistant is another case altogether. He was in a hotel and not a threat to innocent drivers and passengers on the public roads. If it can be shown that he had been driving under the influence then bring the hammer down on him. We can hope that this will be a lesson learned for the young man and he can go on to a productive and responsible life.
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Your point is well taken,
but I only floated the zero-tolerance policy, I’m not necessarily condoning it.
As far as McCutchan
No, he wasn’t driving a car, but he was stumbling around, inebriated, in the stairway of a hotel … not smart. And if you know anything about McCutchan, he’s anything but dumb.
So no, he didn’t endanger anyone’s life, but he put himself in a position to be arrested. So I don’t think he should get a pass on this incident.
But once again, you make an excellent point about second chances.
Most zero tollerance policies lead to bad outcomes eventually.
Drunk in a hotel is just not even on my radar.
Drunk driving is more serious and should be treated as such, especially with a repeat offender.
by JackBluto on Jun 9, 2010 10:10 AM EDT up reply actions 1 recs
Great article Ken,
I have to confess, I share your history when it comes to my imbibing, both intelligently and not so intelligently. And with that history, I have a hard time with zero tolerance. You are absolutely correct that even one mistake with alcohol can be fatal, not only for the individual, but for others as well. And as a member of a family who was robbed of another member by a drunk truck driver, I have shared in the horror that alcohol can bring to the table when it is not monitored. But I have also seen far more cases, in which someone has turned their lives around from episodes that under a zero tolerance policy would have not only lost out on the lesson, but also the opportunity to be an example to others who face similar circumstances.
It may not be a popular stand, but I believe each case should be dealt with under it’s own merits, and with the individual’s capacity to make a better life for themselves, and others by their experience.
You have brought a very important issue to light Ken, again a really great post.
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I appreciate it ABC.
I’m sure many of us have numerous tales of bad judgment which to tell.
I’m so sorry to hear about your loved one.
Absolutely.
At first blush, a zero tolerance policy seems like the way to go. However, when have such policies demonstrated their efficacy? Have they ever really worked? I don’t think so.
In the end, we are all individuals, and no two situations are alike. Life is not written in black and white; we are all shades of gray. The appropriate actions for one person may be (somewhat) unwarranted for another.
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by KYBlue on Jun 9, 2010 11:29 AM EDT up reply actions 1 recs
KYBlue
I believe you may be partially right about life not being written in “black and white.” But absolutes are. When absolutes are encountered there is only “right or wrong.” And these
certainly reflect what our life is.
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Ah, Absolutes
If only such existed. Personally I conform to the de Beauvoir stance:
"Representation of the world, like the world itself, is the work of men; they describe it from their own point of view, which they confuse with the absolute truth"
It is apt to apply to overindulging in alcohol.
"There is a rank due to the United States, among nations, which will be withheld, if not absolutely lost, by the reputation of weakness." --George Washington
There's An Exception To Every Rule
Except that one (no exceptions).
by FortyYearCatFan on Jun 10, 2010 4:43 PM EDT up reply actions
Wild Weasel
Sorry WW. It does exist. I wish you could be enlightened to it. To me it is comforting
to know, even if not always enforced, that murder is a violation of one of the great
absolutes.
I have no idea who de Beauvoir is. I assume he is one of the great misguided men
of the “persuasion Francais”. “Ouverture d’espirit encore ferme’ couer.”
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Great Job Ken
Boy, this is a tough one. I tend to go with ABC that a “zero tolerance” policy may not be the best way. I tend to agree more with dealing with them case by case. With a blood alcohol level of .08 being the standard, a person can drink very little and be “under the influence”. Is a person’s criminal record always considered when the are hired to coach, no matter whether a head or assistant? If so, anyone with a record of alcohol-related offenses should understand that any type of violation, even public intoxication, would warrent dismissal. Like ABC points out, it would be a shame to lose a good person who had a once-in-a-lifetime violation with a .09 blood alcohol level.
I spent my time with Gatewood at the Paddock, around the corner from Memorial Coliseum and I could walk back to Rose and Rose. That was a challenge some nights.
When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro...Hunter S. Thompson
Gatewood is a trip.
We shared a table at an event one time and I offered him a glass of wine. He said “No thanks, I find that alcohol interferes with my buzz.” He is one of a kind.
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Ken Howlett
Another super article. It’s hard to argue about anything you covered. I hate alcohol because I watched my daddy ruin his life and family with the stuff. He died in 1967 at the age of 49.
Alcohol is a VERY controversial subject. But among coaches and athletes who have the legal right to indulge there must be a higher standard, as you alluded to, for them because of who they are and the position they occupy.
“The more one drinks, the more irresponsible one becomes.” The graveyards are full of
people who will second the motion.
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UK Basketball Players Had Drinking Problems In Late 90's And Early 2000's
I would hope UK enact a policy to deal with drinking issues firmly but fairly.
One would think
That enough common sense would allow these guys to make better decisions. But this was not the case in both of these instances. I really don’t have a big problem with the McCutchan incident. At least he didn’t get behind the wheel. But he did cause negative press to be cast upon UK. Unless he was way out of line with someone, being who he is probably is what encouraged someone to call the police. (I mean, who calls the cops because a drunk man is stumbling in the hallway of a motel.)
Maybe a zero-tolerance policy for staff would give a little more incentive to make better decisions. Sometimes incentives help a lot. The university may feel that is getting too much into their personal lives maybe, but if they want to be involved with the teams they should be showing good examples for the student athletes.
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Common Sense
One would think you are right, but unfortunately, sometimes common sense is cast aside.
a2d2
Good response and I agree. However I would add this very important point. Driving while under the influence is the worse case scenario, being publicly “sauced” to the point of creating a scene, is also sad, no matter who it is.
This whole issue boils down to “one taking responsibility for ones actions.” If they don’t there is a price to pay.
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Back in the '70s
I decided at 4:00 a.m. on I-64 between Lexington and Louisville to see how fast my Dodge Charger would go. That car would pass anything but a repair shop. I was too drunk to walk, much less drive. At 135 mph, I had an epiphany, not in the religious sense, but in the cut-this-out-or-you’re-gonna-die sense. I realized that if I blew a tire or if a deer ran in front of me, they’d never find all my body parts. Fortunately, I lived to tell this story and never did anything that stupid again. Let’s hope Rod has the same experience I did. I look at the McCutchan situation differently. Yes, he set a bad example and made UK look bad, but he didn’t put anybody’s life in danger. Zero tolerance? Nah, it’s just an excuse to allow people the luxury of never having to think and actually make a decision. I think everybody deserves a second chance, but not a third.
I may be paranoid, but that doesn't mean they're not out to get me.
"That car would pass anything but a repair shop ..." Maybe I'm sheltered,
but I haven’t heard that one before:)
Great post, Ken. :)
You hit on so many great points. These coaches are supposed to be responsible adults, and they haven’t demonstrated that recently (at least in these instances). It’s simple, really. If you choose to drink, try to do so in someone’s home, maybe at a private party. If you choose to drink in public, limit yourself, or have someone trustworthy (sober)with you who can cut you off when need be—preferably before you embarass yourself and those around you. And most importantly, if you choose to drink, don’t drive. Why didn’t these coaches get the memo?
Now, I’m not sure what the University’s response to these incidents should be—for the moment, I’m going to trust UK’s judgment. All I know for sure is that these guys, at the very least, need a refresher course on the lessons my momma taught me. :-)
Thanks for the great read, Ken.
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Hi Ken
Good story, as a non drinker I really don’t have any personal knowledge on the subject. Dad told me as a teen if I wanted to drink to buy it and bring it home. I didn’t like the taste and never acquired one later. I never saw the use in getting drunk.
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Oldcat, I'm glad to say I didn't keep the taste.
Although I still have the occasional beer, or even a Scotch (I hope I’m allowed to say that as a Kentucky native) or bourbon at a social gathering, I don’t drink the amount of alcohol in a year that I used to drink on a good weekend. As a young man, it took me one night to get over drinking ten beers, and now it takes me ten nights to get over drinking one. Old age is hell.
I may be paranoid, but that doesn't mean they're not out to get me.
Bourbon came from Scotch immigrants
It’s fine to go back to your roots! I can’t find a better liquor for the money than 7yr old white label Beam; have any suggestions?
"all the way"
MD 20/20?
Isn’t that a cheap wine; like Ripple? Plenty of Yankees(some are great neighbors!.) have moved around me playing Winery over the last 20 years . No shortage of that stuff around. I’m praying for those guys though. They just can’t seem to get it that 200 years ago others tried to grow wine near the KY river. They failed miserably; with the mold and rot chasing them to Indiana. (see Chateau Pomije). One of my neighbors is at his last wit over it.
"all the way"
ro307805
Yes it is except it’s a cut above ripple. Mad Dog is slang for Mogen David of
California. At one time it was just grape wine but I believe it is made in other
flavors as well. kywineman can probably answer that question.
I didn’t know that wine making was once attempted in Kentucky. Have they come up with a solution to the problem?
Mold and rot in the Ohio River Valley? Can’t be! LOL
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It's the Ky river palisades area i'm talikng about.
And one of the most Prominent wineries to relocate is now " Chateau Pomije" in Southern IN(Previously, it was located near the mouth of Little Hickman Creek near present day Camp Nelson, in an area formerly known as “Pink”.). My neighbor wpuld have liked to try the same spray us Tobacco guys use for Blue Mold, but the wine would be “unsavory” according to the local Old Timers around Pollard. The Chrisman Mill Winery seems to be doing alright, but it is farther from the River.
"all the way"
It really depends
on the varieties you try to grow and how well you keep up your spray program and canopy management. There are many types of grapes that do very well in Kentucky but the more well known varieties such as Chardonnay, Cabernet Sauvignon and Merlot struggle with the freezing and thawing during our winters and springs.
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I don't know
about the Mad Dog or Mogan David. I drink bourbon or dry wines.
I woke up feeling BLUE this morning. It's gonna be a great day.
Drugs
We allow alcohol companies to associate their products with every sport in the nation. This is false advertising at best and contributes to the drunk driving statistics at worst. Alcohol sales and advertising are allowed in sports because of the profits, the truth is always lost when it gets in the way of cold hard cash. Every fan watches their favorite teams on TV while the alcohol industry ,ie drug industry, reminds them to stock up on drugs for the big game. We cheer on the nascar driver with alcohol logos plastered all over the car and wonder why people can’t get the message that drinking and driving is stupid. Duh! If the alcohol drug companies were required to list all the side effects of alcohol during their ads as the medical drug companies are required, it might wake some folks up. Maybe even a few coaches.
Prohibition failed.
We aren’t going back there. We don’t need to make decisions for adults, just hold them accountable for making bad ones.
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Aboveboard
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Aboveboard
Excellent observation especially about alcohol being a drug. If it’s a drug it’s the worst “over the counter” drug ever sold.
Our UK program has had it’s share of “close encounters” as well as outright violations with alcohol related problems. I’m sure we all regret them and ,as many have already stated, the offenders should be held accountable.
From the first offence.
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Sounds like
Sharia law.
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by kywineman on Jun 9, 2010 11:16 PM EDT up reply actions 1 recs
kywineman
Sorry man. You zipped over my head with that one. I have no idea who/what Sharia is.
I learned in the military, if you don’t know, ask. So who/what is Sharia?
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kywineman
By the way sir, I assume from your name, that you deal in the production/sales of wine. If so my comment was not intended to insult you.
On the contrary, I don’t believe that a little wine will hurt anyone as long as they don’t become anebriated. That is the individuals responsibility. Thanks
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Muslim Fundamentalist law
If you are caught stealing; right hand hand cut off(under Islamic custom)you eat with your right hand and wipe your butt with the left. Once you have been caught stealing you become a s*** eater . Adultery? You can just imagine that one…
"all the way"
Good post Ken
I totally agree with you on this one.
If the University, i.e. Todd and Barnhart, doesn’t move on these type of incidences they are condoning the actions.
This behavior isn’t going to go away but simple ignoring it.
If Stickland is the coach he is reported to be I’m sure he could work in the professional ranks where something like this would be little,
How do you hold a student/athlete to a standard your are not willing to meet yourself as his coach?
I have be correctly accused of having a 'football fetish'. You know, someone who doesn't think football is the warm up sport to basketball season.
Paris,
I don’t think even ABC would argue with your closing sentence.
I woke up feeling BLUE this morning. It's gonna be a great day.
I would, but only if he was wrong.......and he is not......the standards must be the same. Assuming all parties are adults.
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