A Kind Request From Ken H.

by Ken Howlett on Oct 28, 2009 5:00 AM EDT Comment 11 comments

Those who have been reading A Sea of Blue for any length of time know that we seldom stray from covering the 'Cats and their athletic pursuits. But, for just a moment I would like to issue a non-sports related personal request.

My father-in-law, and huge UK fan, Joe Morehead, has recently been diagnosed with what amounts to terminal cancer. It's in his liver, and sadly, there just isn't anything they can do for him. He's only 58 years old.

I know that cancer strikes hundreds-of-thousands people every year, and my intent is not to imply that my family members plight is any more important than the thousands of others stricken with this terrible disease. But, I have decided to use the forum that Tru has given me to discuss UK sports, to in this case, ask for your help.

If you could find the time to send Joe and encouraging note, I think it would lift his spirits as well as his resolve. Hearing encouraging words from fellow UK followers, strangers in one sense, but kindred spirits in every sense, should have an uplifting effect, and that's what I'm looking for.

If you feel like this is something that you would like to do, Joe's address is:

Joe Morehead

1412 Clayton Court

Bowling Green, KY 42101

Thanks,

Ken

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Makes Me Cry and I Understand So Well

Ken,

When my dad was dying of cancer, I did the same thing. I asked people I knew and others I only knew via the internet, to send cards and say prayers. He received hundreds of cards from all around the world and I believe it meant a great deal to him.

During his final days, he was at home with Hospice and not responsive to anyone. But the nurses kept telling us to talk to him, that he could hear us. So on the last day of his life, not knowing whether it was the right thing to do or not, I turned on a Kentucky basketball game in his room, (he was a super fan and Kentucky basketball was one of our greatest bonds). I ‘talked’ about the game, hoping he was hearing the Cats win one more time.

You and your family are in my prayers and it will be my privilege to send him a card. This year should bring moments of happiness to all Wildcat fans, even during their darkest times. I hope he gets to enjoy some great games this season.

Cat

by StillCatwoman on Oct 28, 2009 6:43 AM EDT reply actions 0 recs

My Opinion

Maybe, maybe not could his physical body (ears) “hear” what you said to him.

But I’m quite certain that his spirit, his soul, his immortal self heard everything you said.

by FortyYearCatFan on Oct 28, 2009 12:09 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs

thank you.

Made me cry again.

You know, the instructions for my own graveside service are to sing Will the Circle Be Unbroken, and launch right into the UK fight song as they lower the casket into the ground.

Lots of joy from our Cats over a lifetime, and so many Kentuckians bonded forever by our Blue Blood.
Thank you 40!
Cat

by StillCatwoman on Oct 28, 2009 1:14 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs

KH.....will be more than glad to do it....there is nothing worse than feeling helpless

all my prayers……

Remember, we're having fun now!!!

by ALLBLUCAT on Oct 28, 2009 7:52 AM EDT reply actions 0 recs

On it boss.

I have kleptomania,
but when it gets bad,
I take something for it.

by bluecrip on Oct 28, 2009 7:54 AM EDT reply actions 0 recs

We have spoken about this ...

… but I will be sending him a note today. May God grant him victory over this terrible disease. Our prayers are with him, you and your family.

A Sea of Blue -- Kentucky Sports for the Discerning Fan

by Truzenzuzex on Oct 28, 2009 8:31 AM EDT reply actions 0 recs

My heart goes out to you Ken and

your entire family. I will remember everyone in my prayers and will send a little cheer to Joe. I am more than happy to do so. This is a good thing you are doing for him.

Remember Ken, just like with our teams, we try to have a little extra faith even when we don’t think we are able. God is great and He will supply all our needs.

Blue... there is no other color to Bleed !!!

by a2d2 on Oct 28, 2009 9:50 AM EDT reply actions 0 recs

I'll Do That (Send A Note)

He’s 58. I’m 58.

Life dealt him a terrible turn with that cancer diagnosis. He didn’t deserve it.

by FortyYearCatFan on Oct 28, 2009 12:08 PM EDT reply actions 0 recs

God bless

Joe and all your family in this time of need. I go to a small country church, and we will put his name on the prayer board. I have seen it work wonders before. Take care…

"You are what you are and you ain't what you ain't"

by iam4ukintn on Oct 29, 2009 1:45 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs