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Sometimes words aren't wanted, but they are needed

Billy Gillispie has been coach at Kentucky for less than a year, but he has already left a mark here.  He has left a mark on the team, in terms of toughness and grit.  He has left a mark on the fans, with his willingness to accept the blame for a tough transition, a poor early season record, his refusal to accept injury as an excuse for poor performance, and his insistence to anyone who will listen that this is his basketball team and not some rag-tag remnants of mismanagement.

I am not used to praising Gregg Doyel, I am used to burying him in a blizzard of rebuttal and ridicule.  But not today.  Gregg has just written a piece for CBS Sportsline that will reach deep into your chest, seize your heart in a vicelike grip, and leave you changed a bit for the better.  It is all about this video, and the effort of Dance Blue.  All you have to do is watch the video, and if you aren't moved, you need to call an ambulance.

Very rarely are we allowed a glimpse into a person's heart, but the video linked above is one of the more endearing things I have ever seen done by any coach at any time.  It literally brought tears to my eyes, which have yet to clear.   It 's truly moving to see someone almost break down in front of a crowd trying to raise money for sick children, especially someone with the tough-as-a-piece-of-iron image Billy Gillispie tries to live up to.  It is a peek inside the soul of a private person who grew up without the benefit of privilege, but did grow up with the benefit of health, something that the children that are the object of pediatric cancer research have been denied so far.

The gift Gillispie gave is incidental, to my mind.  Sometimes, seeing someone so touched by circumstances is an even rarer treasure.  These kids were just happy to be around the man.  That was gift enough, but not nearly enough for the coach.  Of course, I'm sure Coach Gillispie would rather that neither Doyel nor I write these pieces about his charitable actions.  I'm sure the same is true of the other fine coaches mentioned by Doyel --  Mike Krzyzewski, Brian Gregory, Billy Donovan, Roy Williams, Herb Sendek -- and there are undoubtedly many more who's charitable kindness and community work go unheard and unheralded.  It is not for public plaudits, newspaper articles or praise from bloggers like me that they do this work and give their time and treasure to these causes.  But in my humble opinion, we should write them whenever we have the opportunity.  Writing about their stories of kindness and generosity inspires others to selfless action, and helps us all reflect on where our own hearts are.

So here is an apology to our coach for more unwanted publicity, but I hope he will take my word that it is with the best of intentions and the hope that by making a big deal of something he would rather minimize, it might help make the world a little better place.  Winston Churchill said, "We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give."  The actions of these fine coaches, and many others who remain nameless, remind us of this important lesson and enrich our lives by giving us an example we would all do well to emulate.

Thank you, Coach Gillispie, Coach Krzyzewski, Coach Gregory, Coach Donovan, Coach Williams and Coach Sendek.  And thank you, Gregg Doyel, for such a fine article -- it was inspiring.

Update [2008-2-28 19:25:7 by TheFakeGimelMartinez]: Tru had the wrong article link. It be fixed now. Wee!

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What an uplifting video. Good post Tru. Wonderful to be included for a  few grand moments with a powerful look at a great man.  

by CAWebb on Feb 28, 2008 7:20 PM EST reply actions   0 recs

Great post
Living in North Carolina,I was unaware of Coach Gillispies heart renfering appearance at "Dance Blue" until I ran across it on the net.I must say I was deeply moved and brought to tears.And then to read the story about his helping the lady who needed asssistance to attend her fathers funeral was equally touching.

So Tru,like you,I would offer a big thank you to  not only Coach Gillispie ,but everyone who gives to charity and others.

by UKats on Feb 28, 2008 7:31 PM EST reply actions   0 recs

Definitely worth writing about
I'm sure the coaches don't like bloggers writing the articles where they second guess them or take them to task either, but they get written.  So it's only fitting to write the good articles too.

This is the man that we're proud to have representing us and our university.

by EEWildcat on Feb 28, 2008 8:36 PM EST reply actions   0 recs

Thanks ...
to FGM for fixing my boo-boo.  You would think I would check that.

You would be wrong. :-)

by Truzenzuzex on Feb 28, 2008 9:37 PM EST reply actions   0 recs

darn Tru...
you should warn about crying....

by khlim2 on Feb 28, 2008 9:46 PM EST reply actions   0 recs

I thought I did ...
But if not, you couldn't miss it in my writing.

:-)

by Truzenzuzex on Feb 28, 2008 10:47 PM EST up reply actions   0 recs

Gillispie's Graciousness
It seems as if the sports world has been racked with negative publicity, almost continuously, for the last few years. Amid all the chaos, it's refreshing to see heartfelt, genuine emotion coming from a man who is known as one tough SOB.

That's two good deeds in two weeks for Coach. Anybody seen Adam Sandler hangin' around the Craft Center lately?

I think Gillispie cares about other people. I think his meager beginnings makes him appreciate what he has financially, and even more so, makes him root for the underdog, so to speak. He roots for the underdog, because he is one of them.

Saturday night he could have taken the easy way out, if he wanted. He could have written a check and been done with it, but he chose to convey his feelings to a crowd full of seriously ill children, and volunteers. The fact that his emotions got the best of him speaks to his credibility as a giver, in my view.

Disengenuous, he is not.

A good man who happens to be a pretty damn exceptional basketball coach, he is.

Just how we like 'em in Kentucky.

by Ken Howlett on Feb 29, 2008 1:02 AM EST reply actions   0 recs

Close to home ...
Just when I thought Acdixon's promoted diary made me feel as good about being a UK fan as possible, here comes this entry. Thanks, Tru, for bringing it to our attention.

This video killed me, especially as my 5 year old son has a friend, Sam, who was recently diagnosed with neuroblastoma. He's tough as nails, though, and is fighting through his first rounds of chemo.

Sam's dad, a Navy helicopter pilot, is getting his head shaved at a St. Baldrick's Foundation event in Norfolk, VA, both to show solidarity and to raise funds for pediatric cancer research. I humbly submit, if anyone is interested in contributing, here's his link: http://www.stbaldricks.org/participants/shavee_info.html?ParticipantKey=2008|32094

Also, all prayers are so greatly appreciated by Sam's family (and all families facing this battle, for that matter).

Thanks to the Big Blue Nation!

(Note: Apologies to Tru & JL Blue if this isn't a kosher move. If so, please remove with absolutely no risk of hard feelings!)

by expatwildcat on Feb 29, 2008 1:25 PM EST reply actions   0 recs

No problem at all ...
and may God bless your son's friend and his family.

by Truzenzuzex on Mar 1, 2008 12:20 AM EST up reply actions   0 recs

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